From the Book - Berkley trade pbk. ed.
Part I. Focusing on the root issues : Don't all relationships have problems?
Is the problem immaturity?
Is the problem addiction?
Is the problem his mental health?
Is the problem abuse or control?
Part II. Motivating for change: his and yours : What makes a man (finally) look at himself
Getting yourself back to center?
Setting "no-matter-what-happens" goals for yourself
Part III. Entering the new phase : Men's work: what it's really all about
Why your growth may bring more answers than his
Are we really getting anywhere?
The pros and cons of giving him time
Part IV. Making the big decision : Why you may feel worse when he improves
Rules for saving the savable relationship
How to know when it's time to go
Part V. Life beyond : Entering freedom after a destructive relationship
Creating the relationship you want